Eneke Tamil teriyum =)

Its fun having Indian housemates..
Apart from being able to practice speaking English everyday, I can also learn some interesting or sometimes even bad Tamil words from them..
Here are those that I have already memorized by heart..


--Ielarm oven sail (easy to remember: alarm+ oven +sail)

--Na une kathirekerain (most commonly learnt by everyone)

--Enekke tamil te riyum...u neke te ri yum ma?? (Prepare to be speechless after saying this to Indian~lol)

--Ireke ,ile .. (yes, no)

--Iruka illeya?? (got or not?)

--Uneke brain irukka illeya? (My favourite)

--Ni rumba arega ireke..(fiu wuit..)

--De, mule ile!! (I like this the most!!)

--Vai mude...(zip.....)

--Eneke Umai Pudikum, Unaku Ennai pudikuma? [ans : Pudikum =) or Pudikathu]

yeah!! I can marry Indians..Ene kalianum padikilia?

Where are all of my klang friends??

Why is it so hard to get someone to go out with me?
As time flies and everyone grows up, life seems to be different from what I used to expect it to be..Everyone is busy with their own activities..pat to, study, working, etc.

(I still remember those days when we hang out together after class at the bus stop for junk food, aunty kopitiam for prawn mee, and even spent half an hour to walk under the hot sun just to get to tesco kfc and enjoy 20%discount on every tuesday)

But..when I woke up this morning, no one is with me-- Mami and jie jie went out for facial treatment, Mei mei went tuition, papa going out to Rawang for lunch appointment.. What left was just facebook..Thanks to the one who creates bowling game in FB..

How nice if I could hear the door bell rings now and see someone holding a lunch box and shout out: "Hey, let me in!I've brought your favourite food for you!" Hahaha..feel so happy even though am just imagining..lol..

Oops..forgot that I have piano class at 1pm, went at 4.15pm but this slot has already been replaced by other. Called yung,she has to go for CL practice; called fish too, not free; Sin, no need to ask la,24/7 with HJ....Hmmm..finally figured out one more person..Kean Aun!!Haha..my savior~ coming in few min times to fetch me out..yoohoo..yeah yeah..no need to starve and stone at home anymore..muahaha..

Affordable dates..

Having less cash does not necessarily have to put a strain on romantic life.

Truth is, there are so many fun activities that we could do together that are inexpensive, and yet, provide meaningful interactions that could enrich relationship>>>

1. going to library- which somewhat seems boring and unromantic,but think again

... hunting for books on special topics that interest both, and browsing through them togehter can bring a whole new meaning and purpose to a relationship...

2. activities that could keep us focused and motivated in life

...viewing showhouses, test-driving cars and window-shopping at exclusive malls...

3. being close to nature
...picnic lunch, or just a walk around the park, or even sunset/sunrise viewing are some of the enriching activities for the lovebirds...

4. prepare a simple meal at home
...after all, hunting ingredients at thrifty malls, and cooking a simple, yet exotic, meal at home, getting those candles and nice tablecloth ready is not too difficult a thing to do...

5. exercise together
...consider viable and fun activities like kayaking, cycling, as well as skating that are easy on the pocket...

If only I have more hours in a day..

oh my goodness! I just realised that i've got so much things to do..but am not doing it, not touching it, totally ignore it!
Rather blogging, facebooking, sleeping, watching tv, and doing everything else other than what I should do!
Sigh.. I am so terrible, horrible, unimagineable, disastrous, disorganized, chaotic..hmmm..what other words can i describe myself??

Pls..grant me some energy, some motivation, some solid reasons to continue such an unbreathable hectic life.. May be I just need more time..48hours perhaps..no no..25 would be enough for me..

Jamie ah..study!!don play play liao..go go..guai la..go la..k la..bye..

Tips to become a well liked person

Read this in the midst of searching "tips to be perfect guy" for yen haw..find it meaningful..that's why i paste it here to keep me remind of these..

1. Give your contacts a big smile when you meet them. Make them feel that you are really happy to meet them.


2. Give your full attention to the people you converse with as if nothing else is important.


3. When they ask for your attention, leave whatever you are doing.


4. When they call you, greet them with enthusiasm as if you are longing for their call.


5. Don’t make them wait.


6. Print the list of your contacts and look at it in your spare time. It will remind you of whom to touch base.


7. Always reply your contacts’ emails and text messages.


8. Reply their emails and text messages in the first chance you get.


9. Shake their hands with enthusiasm.


10. Praise them sincerely when they do something good. Make them feel that you are proud of them.


11. Always return their calls.


12. Send a message to them on their birthdays. Even better, call them.


13. Drop your old contacts quick emails or text messages to ask how they are doing.


14. Remember their names and achievements.


15. Remember important facts about them, especially the things they really care about (you may want to write them down).


16. Introduce them to the people in your contact who may help them out.


17. Actively find the deepest needs they may have (without waiting for them to explicitly tell you).


18. Take initiative to give them the solutions they need.


19. Give thanks for them in your session of gratitude.


20. Mention their names in your prayer.


21. Talk with them about their life.


22. Ask them specific questions about things they care about. They will realize that you care enough to remember their facts.


23. Give them something precious you have. Time is a good candidate.


24. Go eat with them. Even better, treat them.


25. When you meet them, don’t look at your watch as if you have something more important to do.


26. When you talk to them, don’t look over their shoulder as if you are looking for someone more important to talk to.


27. Send the quick tips or articles you just found which may benefit them.


28. Message them encouraging words or quotes.


29. Lend them the best books or DVDs you have.


30. Talk to them about how you like your other friends. They will think that you may talk the same way about them.


31. Don’t talk negatively to them about how you don’t like your other friends. They will think that you may also talk the same way about them.


32. Occasionally mention their names in your conversation with them.


33. Be creative to give them small surprises every now and then.

adapted from http://www.lifeoptimizer.org

没有结局的表白

今天， “黑马王子”跟我说他喜欢上我了。。好笑。。

我反而骂他对爱情不认真，随便乱喜欢人。。 可怜的他呀。。无辜~哈哈

可是其实我已经预料到的。。从他常说要出去，常打电话给我开始。。

他的信息和以往的那些追求者一样。。而我的回答也是一样没变到。。

不是因为我不想谈恋爱~而是我希望我下一个男友会是我的终身伴侣，不想再放感情然后受伤害了~

不做情侣也好~只有朋友才能天长地久。。只有朋友才不会变心。。

为什么喜欢我的人不是我喜欢的人，

我喜欢的人却喜欢别人？哈哈。。所以我已好久好久不敢再喜欢人了~